How to impress your partner on a date
You have a person you are interested in and you’ve finally decided to go on a date. You are getting ready for a very important day but don’t know how to impress your partner on a date?
Probably you’ve already asked your friends what to do or how to act. Maybe you’ve made decisions based on what you saw on movies and don’t know whether it will work with the person you like or not? Have a problem with impressing your partner on a date? Keep reading ways to impress on a date and tips to leave a good impression.
Don’t s to impress on a date
Please do not take the girl out in front of her friends.
First of all, this matter concerns only you two, You need some privacy for this and there is no need for witnesses. Doing this will make her feel like you are trying too hard to impress her or you’re not good enough for her. It’s also very tacky and cheesy.
If you go out with a group of friends, don’t put your arm around her unless she pulls you.
Do not rush the things, go on step by step. Please wait till the second date, at least before trying to snuggle up with her. It’s also very embarrassing for her if it’s the first date and everyone sees you doing this. Her friends will laugh at her, and she will feel embarrassed.
Please do not ask her to eat or even drink before the date officially starts.
For example, if you are meeting at 6 pm for dinner, do not go up to her and say, “I’m hungry. Let’s get something to eat before we go out” or “Can I buy you a drink?” Treat it like any other date. Don’t leave the impression like you need a partner in order to not to eat alone. Save the eating and drinking for AFTER the date.
Do not pay for a girl on the first date unless you have to
Not all girls, but many think that on the first date they need to share expenses. She may think it’s too forward of you or paying for something in return, which is creepy and not good. If you want her number, ask politely but not bribe with money. It’s not attractive. If she wants to pay, do not push her, let it be. If you feel uncomfortable then tell her that on the next date she may fully count on you.
Do not order for the girl unless she asks you to
It’s very forward of you, plus it does nothing for your masculinity. If she wants to be taken care of or has trust issues that is different, but ordering what she eats is wrong. Be a gentleman and wait until she asks you otherwise.
Do not be too expressive on the first date.
This may make her feel uncomfortable. Save your intimate moments until later in the relationship. You don’t want her to think you are just using her for something else.
Be a gentleman and open doors for her, pull out her chair, and so on.
This is a very classic way to impress a girl. It shows that you are a gentleman and that you have manners. Plus, it makes her feel special and important.
Do not be too nice on the first date.
Sounds strange? But this is true. This can creep her out just as much as if you were mean to her. It puts pressure on her and makes it seem like something is wrong with either you or an ulterior motive for your niceness.
From the side it may look like you are a playboy and used to things like this or you are just acting to win her heart. With this kind of action you will definitely leave an impression but not in a good way.
Do s to impress on a date
Pay attention to your appearance
Date is a very important event for a girl; she buys new dress, makes her hair, wears neat makeup and does many other things. Everything is only to impress a guy on a date.
So, what about you also try to impress her this way. Be clean and neat. Wear casual clothes not fancy outfit, yet not usual ones that she’s seen on you several times. Style your hair and use some perfume.
Show her that you’ve prepared for the date and it’s important for you. Show her that you are serious in your relationship and not just playing with her.
With just one sincere smile you can melt her heart and leave a good impression. For her it’s also an approval that you like her outfit or you are listening to her or you are enjoying the time you are spending together.
Be interesting and engaging.
Don’t just talk about yourself the whole time. Be interested in what she has to say. Ask her questions and make her feel like you are curious about what she has to say. Observe her reactions when you ask questions and avoid themes she feels uncomfortable with. Private topics and sensitive questions leave for upcoming dates.
If you don’t know how to dance or sing, just say so
Don’t try to be something that you’re not. It will only make things worse in the long run. Plus, if she likes you for who you are, she will appreciate that you are honest with her.
Be honest, act natural
Don’t try to be someone else, just act natural. People appreciate sincerity more. What if she finds out that you acted before her and weren’t honest with her? Of course, this will hurt her deeply and trust between you will be broken down. Let her know that she is the person whom you trust and respect.
Take away your phone
You are on a date the person you should be focused on is beside you. Take away your phone and don’t get distracted. Better if you put it on silent.
If someone calls, say that you are busy and will call later. With this you will show her that she is more important to you.
If you don’t know how to impress the person you like on a date, don’t just copy others. Be original, be creative, put forward your and your partner’s preferences. Whether you go to cafe, park, movie theatre or to boat ride keep in mind these tips and fully enjoy your date.